I have had plenty of perspective – giving moments this week.
I don’t want to get into many details, but I want to explain my absence this week and what will most likely follow for a while.
Dad went into the hospital a week ago today.
Before we left for Mexico over the holidays, he was to have his third and final surgery – the most important one. This did not happen, due to complications.
Last Friday we found out those complications are cancer.
He was admitted to prepare for chemo – instead there are more complications – he has spent most of the week in ICU with pneumonia.
Needless to say, everything else in life just stops – my main focus right now is my dad, and getting him better.
I am also watching our yard fill with water.
The rain, and the lessons in perspective, can stop now. We have had enough.
I miss you all – I miss the daily interaction here and out there – I bring my laptop to the hospital and check in when I can.
Go hug your loved ones for me, okay?
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I’m so sorry! Many hugs and thinking of you!
thank you, Megan – I appreciate it a lot.
I’m so sorry to hear about your father.
thank you, Victoria <3
Oh friend, I am so sad for you. Sending you lots of hugs and positive energy and strength. I’m thinking of you and your family, my dear. Hugs.
thanks, Jess – I’m feeling the positive energy and strength – it means more than you know!
Good thoughts to you and your family.
thank you SO much, it means a lot <3
Oh my goodness – my hearts broken for you.
Sending you prayers and love. please let me know if you need anything at all!
xo
thank you, Jess – that means a lot. I am drinking the clarity tea you sent me <3
I am so sorry too honey…. Find your zen in all this. Thinking of youâ„
thanks, Lynn – I have moments of zen. then moments of crazy. then back to zen. <3
Aw, girl,I am so sorry to hear this. My prayers with you and your family and I am sending you strength and courage. XOXO.
thank you SO much – your prayers mean more than you could know. XO
I remember how things were when my dad got cancer and I’m so so sorry love. I’m here if you ever need to talk/vent or even just be distracted with hyperness
whatever you need – i’m here! love you! my heart will be with you guys
thank you, Jenn. I may take you up on that – I know we never had our chat date, but I’d love some distracting email time. fill me in on what’s new? feel free to chat and blather. love you!
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. My mother went in for surgery ten years ago and they found cancer on her liver. My thoughts are with you and your dad.
thank you so much, Linda – your thoughts mean a lot. <3
Like they say, we need the rain to see the rainbows. Cheesy and trite? Perhaps, but you’ll get through this as well. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts, my friend. Hang in there!
not cheesy to me, Abby – it is so true. I’m looking for the rainbow every day – and I know it will appear in some way. thank you – your friendship is so very appreciated <3
Still loving you. Still praying. xoxo
And I just found out my Dad is in the hospital too. He’s in cardiac ICU for what they think is pneumonia, but he’s apparently doing better now that he’s on oxygen. My dad is in and out of the hospital frequently with a plethora of medical issues, and when he’s up there and I’m down here I feel so helpless. My sister assures me he is doing better, but I’m a little numb about the situation in general. :/
I am so sorry your Dad is down too – BOTH our dads are in CICU – my dad was moved yesterday from ICU to cardiac… still has pneumonia. Sending prayers and healing thoughts to your dad – sorry you are going through this from a distance. <3
Talking to my dad, he sounds better, but he never tells me the truth about how bad it may be. And my sister’s power has been out and I can’t get a hold of her either (she’s usually a lot more forthcoming about his state than he is). UGH. Just trusting that all will be well soon enough… for both our dads. <3
I don’t even know what to say
big hugs to you & your family <3
thank you, Char. you said exactly the right thing <3
I hope that the sunshine after the rain will happen soon. It’s heartbreaking to have to worry about your dad. Hoping for a full recovery. We will be here when your life gets back together.
Miriam – your wonderful words brought (positive) tears – I am hoping for sunshine soon as well… thank you. <3
I am sorry to hear about your dad and that you’re having to go through this as a family – I know this has got to be a really hard time for you. Just know that I’m praying for you (and your family)!
Heather I really appreciate it – your prayers mean more than you could know.
I lost my dad a few years ago after an extended illness… and I know how terrible it is to go through all of this. I’m so sorry you’r having you. Lots of love to you and your dad.
thank you Laura – sorry you went through that – you definitely know what I am thinking, feeling, doing. I appreciate the love <3
I miss you and I do not even know the words to say, I am so sorry for this rough time in your life. I am sending your dad love and prayers and am hoping that they caught it early enough and he will fight through!
Lots of love to you <3
thank you so much, Katie. your love and prayers mean a great deal to me. <3
SO sorry what a rough time for your family. You are lucky you can be with him, that is a precious gift you have right now. Enjoy it.
thank you, Wise Bitt!
you are so right – I am lucky to have him and have the time to just be… <3
That sucks! I hope your dad gets better. *HUG*
thank you, Kirsten – I appreciate it. hugs to you!
My heart goes out to you and your family. Praying for your dad and your house. <3
thanks, Gina. house is good now – river went down and is no longer in the yard… I appreciate your prayers <3
OH KRIS! I’m so so sorry! Praying now!
Lindsay, I really appreciate your prayers. your friendship means a lot to me! <3
I’m so sorry to hear this news my friend. Big virtual hugs. I’ll definitely be thinking about you and your family.
thank you Heather – your thoughts are appreciated <3 hugs back to you!
Oh hon, I’m so sorry.
We’re not going anywhere. Just do what you need to do for your family, your house, and your heart. We’ll be here when you get back.
Hugs.
thank you so much, friend – that is good to hear. hugs back to you!
Keeping you and your whole family in my prayers.
Katie, that means more than you know – thank you!
So sorry to hear this…your whole family will be in my prayers!
thank you SO much, Ali – that is much appreciated <3
I am so very sorry
hang in there my dear–will be praying for you!
thank you Natalie – your prayers are so appreciated right now!
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. Hard times have a way of putting things in perspective and reminding us of what is truly important. Loving light and thoughts to you and your family.
thank you Cadry – I love when I see perspective, it is important, no doubt. It can be finished now, though
thank you for your thoughts, they are much appreciated <3
I am so very, very sorry Kris. I am thinking of you and your family and sending prayers and love
xo
thank you, Averie! and I appreciate your recent emails – really! it’s nice to have distractions and touches of real life. keep them coming!
xo.
XXO
so sorry, dear friend! prayers, hugs and so much love coming your way. glad you posted about it here – hopefully getting some of the thoughts our of your head and into a post helped in some small way…and feeling the support from your friends around the world. love you.
sweet Dorry – I appreciate your words always. I wasn’t sure about posting here, but so many were asking after me. It is good to check in and see the support from my online community. It helps me continue.
I’m so sorry and am thinking about you and your family.
thank you, Heather – I appreciate that.
I read often but don’t comment as much as I should! Thinking about you and your family and hoping God will wrap his arms around you all during this rough time.
Mindy, thank you for your kind words – I appreciate it a lot (and thank you for commenting!)
Oh, Kristina. I’m so sorry to hear this! It’s got to be so tough on you… I’ll keep you and your father in my thoughts and send positive vibes your way. I hope the rain stops soon, that water level looks pretty scary! xoxo
the water level WAS scary – thankfully the river has gone down and is no longer in our yard. thank you SO much, Hally – your positive thoughts are sp appreciated. <3
Definitely keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
thank you Jessica! your thoughts and prayers are very much appreciated.
Praying for you and your dad, sweet friend. <3
thank you, Sarah – that means a lot to me.
I am here for you if you need a virtual shoulder. I am so sorry you are going through so much right now. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you and your family my dear friend.
thank you SO much, dear friend! your prayers and friendship help a lot!
Like the pops of green in these photos I hope you’re able to find the bright spots during this tough time, Kris. I’m so sorry for the pain that this part of life has you experiencing. Stay strong. You’re in my thoughts. xoxo
thank you so much, Stephanie – that means a great deal to me. I am seeing much more green these days – the river has gone down some and is not in our yard any longer!
I’m so sorry. I hugged my little one and you are in my thoughts.
thank you so much, Jillian!
thinking and praying for you Kris. Praying for your family, praying for you dad! Please know i am here for ANYTHING! Sending a virtual hug your way.
thank you, Lindsay – your friendship, support and prayers mean so much more than you know. actually, you probably do know. love you.
So sorry about your poor dad! Hoping you hear some good news about him soon!
thank you SO much – still hoping for good news too – he has good days, then takes a step back. it’s a process. your words mean more than you know! XO
thinking of you, your dad and whole family! Praying that good news comes soon!!
HUGS
thank you SO much – I am hoping for good news too. <3
So sorry to hear about your dad. Hugs to you, and hope things start to turn around right now!
thank you so much, Lauren! Dad is pretty much the same, improving a little. River is not in our yard anymore, so I can once again focus all energy on Dad. your words are much appreciated <3
Oh Kris …
Hugs and hugs and hugs and hugs to you, and all my best thoughts and wishes are going over to you and your dad right now …
I’m thinking of you and praying for you!
your prayers are so appreciated, kath. Basil gives the best hugs right now, you know?? pups know when they need to give extra.
And when there’s anything I can do for you, just let me know!
<3
thank you, dear friend! that means more than you could know <3
Aw, hang in there! Thinking of you, your dad and family…
thank you, Liz – much appreciated <3
Many prayers to you and your Father Kris. I pray that he’s getting the best care that he can and you do what you can to support him by taking care of yourself. I pray that your home is damaged by the flooding either.
thank you, Marty – your prayers and messages mean a lot. he is receiving exceptional care, and he is incredibly strong and positive.
OMG! Your home IS NOT damaged by the flooding!!!!
ha – I know what you meant!
yes, the water has receded – not in the yard anymore – WHEW.
Hugs-lots.
thank you, Sue – means a lot!
Oh, Kristina, my heart goes out to you all. Sending big hugs, good thoughts, and lots of prayers, dear.
xoxo,
Shirley
thank you so much, dear friend – it means a great deal to me. XO
So sorry to hear about your dad, Kris.
I gave some extra hugs today, and hope you’re getting extra hugs – especially from basil!
Basil has been SO good to me – they know when something is up, you know?? thank you for your thoughts – and I’m glad you gave some extra hugs!
Wow – hugs and prayers.
thank you!
So sorry to hear.. my dad fought (and beat) cancer. It was incredibly hard for the family but he was SO strong. Just envision your family coming out the other side of the ordeal. Sending my best wishes.
I am envisioning that, Eleah!
I have seen this enough to know that attitude and positive energy means SO much – so we are positive and surrounding him with strength and love. thank you so much.
Thinking of you sweetie. I’m here if you need anything at all!
thank you, Sayward, that is much appreciated XO
My thoughts are with you and your family, Kristina.
thank you so much, Carrie. XO
You are in my thoughts, dear friend. We are all here for you. xo
thank you JL, that means a great deal. XO
There are no words at times…I’m very sorry that your father is suffering, and so is your family. Please know there are so many who love your blog…and I think that you should try to keep in touch – it can be something to draw strength from…If your dad is able to have you make him some nutrient rich smoothies – do it girl. I’m sending you love and light.
- Natasha from Nova Scotia
Natasha, thank you! I know what you mean about no words, but yours are wonderful and mean a great deal to me! Right now Dad is on a feeding tube, but as soon as I possibly can I WILL be making him smoothies and all sorts of healing foods! Sometimes I am so exhausted (and I have no words!) but yes, I know it is helpful to stay in touch when I can… today is a good day so I am! thank you, you gave me a punch of energy!
I’m sorry you are going through this. I hope it’s a “good” cancer that is curable. My thoughts are with you guys. Big hugs!!!!!
thank you, Lisa. I hope it is too.
xoxoxo
XXO!
Thinking of you and your Dad. Hope all goes well. And hoping the waters recede sooner rather than later.
thank you so much, Andrea! yard is no longer under water, our river is still high but WAY down! I appreciate your thoughts XO
Oh Kristina, I don’t even know what to say except that I’m praying for your family. Stay strong.
thanks, Tiffany – I appreciate the prayers. Dad is strong, so that helps keep me strong! XO
We love you.
thank you Michelle!! MISS YOU, and love you too! XO
Kristina, I’m thinking of you and your family. I’m so sorry.
thanks, Erin – it means a lot <3
I am so sorry Kristina. You all will be in our prayers everyday.
thank you so much, Richa!
Oh Kris! I am SOOO sorry to read this. Please know nothing but good wishes are coming your way down the coast from me. Take care of yourself while you take care of everything else. BIG HUG!!!
thank you SO much, Roz. I appreciate your message and good wishes – it helps.
Love you and praying for you.
thank you, dear friend! your prayers are much appreciated, as is your friendship!
I am so, so sorry. Sending you positive thoughts, prayers and lots and lots of love!
thank you Molly, it means a lot to me.
Oh, goodness! I’m just reading this now, and sending you BIG hugs through the net-waves…love, love, and more love coming y’alls way.
Big hugs and warm wishes to you. So sorry you are going through this. Thank you for letting us know.
I am so sorry! Many prayers and healing thoughts being sent your Dad’s way.
thank you <3
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