I have always said my Dad has a fun sense of humor. From changing lyrics of songs to cracking silly jokes, his humor is rare and classic at the same time.
I always tell the story of my first basketball – I was maybe 9 or 10 when Dad took me shopping to choose one. I recall this like it was yesterday – the basketballs are all lined up on the shelves in those half box packaging – I point to one and Dad picks it up and bounces it on the floor, box and all. I laughed all the way home, holding my new basketball in the now crushed packaging.
Visiting Dad in the hospital the other day, I brought several days worth of mail to go through. He is attached to all kinds of wires, one on his left hand. He kept holding envelopes with that hand as he opened or read them, setting off loud beeps with the machines – sometimes harmonizing the beats together. His nurse came in to check on him, resetting the machine to silence it. He wrote on his clipboard (trach = cannot talk) that “he is learning to play the vent” referring to his ventilator. His nurse said in 20+ years of working in the CICU, she has never heard anything so clever.
The joking sparkle in my dads eye makes my heart sing! Also, his nurse having 20+ years experience lets me know he is in very capable hands.
I look forward to sharing this new brownie fudge with him. Hopefully soon. As soon as I can, I will be making him healing smoothies, juices and vibrant food. The brownie fudge will follow.
This recipe name is not a mistake – I set out to make a very dense brownie, more of a fudge consistency. Jason wasn’t much of a fan, but I was happy with the result.
More for me.
salted caramel brownie fudge
dairy, wheat, soy and gluten free, vegan
2 tablespoons chia seeds
1/4 cup + 1 tablespoon water
3/4 cup butter (Earth Balance Soy Free)
4 ounces dark chocolate, chopped
3/4 cup maple syrup
2 teaspoons vanilla
3/4 cup flour (gluten free all-purpose)
1/2 cup salted caramel sauce (recipe follows)
Combine chia and water, set aside to gel. In medium saucepan, melt butter and dark chocolate over medium heat, stirring often until completely melted. Remove from heat – allow to cool slightly. Add maple syrup, vanilla, chia mixture and flour, stirring after each and stirring just enough to combine. Pour batter into prepared (greased, floured or lined with parchment) 9×9 or similar size pan. Pour or spoon salted caramel sauce over top, swirl through with knife, sprinkle sea salt over caramel. Bake at 350 for 30-35 minutes, or until inserted toothpick comes clean.
salted caramel sauce
gluten, soy and dairy free, vegan
1/2 cup brown sugar
1 tablespoon water
1/4 cup coconut milk*
1 teaspoon cornstarch
1 tablespoon butter
2 tablespoons coconut spread (or use more butter)
1 teaspoon sea salt
*carton, not canned coconut milk – or sub milk of choice
In saucepan over medium heat, combine sugar, cornstarch, water and milk, stirring until sugar is dissolved and mixture begins to thicken. Remove from heat. Add butter and coconut spread, stirring until combined.
This makes a good quantity of caramel to use with this fudge recipe – if you prefer to use less, store remainder in airtight container in refrigerator.
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This made me smile and I certainly hope it makes you smile thinking about your father. He sounds like an amazing person.
he really is – and so much fun too.
These look incredible! Your dad sounds like a wonderful man. He’s lucky to have a daughter like you, too.
thanks, Maryea… he really is wonderful and I am the lucky one.
What a sweet, sweet story! That made me smile to read, about your dad. I bet you will cherish that moment for quite some time, huh? As for those salted carmel fudgy goodness…I seriously would pay you to make those for me and ship them…for real.
It makes me smile each time I think of it.
and Hmm… these wouldn’t be TOO difficult to ship… perhaps I should start an etsy shop…
um, yes, seriously, do it! I will be your first customer!!!
I love that your dad has a sense of humor even in the hospital – I think a positive attitude can help tremendously and it sounds like he’s got that! Plus an awesome family to support him.
This recipe looks simply amazing, just the title makes me hungry!
hi Heather – you are absolutely right! I know his positive outlook and easy going demeanor will help a lot, especially as we begin chemo treatments. I am so thankful he has a good attitude.
unfortunately these are gone now… because I’m hungry for one too!
Such a beautiful story. Your dad has such fight and charisma! You’re a great daughter to him, so loving and supportive. <3
thank you, Jess. <3 it is SO good to see a smile on his face. he is strong and sturdy, too, which is going to help during this journey.
Holy moly! That sounds so good! Chocolate and caramel are easily my two favorite flavors.
I know, me too. add the salt and … Mmm, perfect!
Oh my god, this sounds amazing. Great recipe!
thanks, Evan! I loved them. Jason came around when the caramel topping was added.
Your dad sounds amazing—sense of humor even with a trach…now that’s just great. We should all have that perspective and attitude about things!
And, I mean, obv the salted caramel brownie fudge looks amazing!
I know – I really admire that about him, he just takes it all in stride and remains positive. Even when he is antsy and wants to leave the hospital, he’s joking about it.
I now see who you get your sense of humor from
xo
hee. yep. <3
Beautiful! The salted caramel sauce especially sounds amazing. I am sure your dad will love these as soon as he has a chance to sample one.
yep, I will definitely be making more for him when I can! the caramel sauce… Mmm. so good.
Want want want!
I am SO happy to hear that your dad’s spirits are high through all of this. Keeping a positive attitude can make a world of difference in recovery times. You’ll be sharing these with him in no time. <3
I know – I am so happy to see him getting back to his “normal”
chemo will be starting soon, let’s hope he can get through with smiles and jokes then too…
He sounds so strong. And with you by his side, he can’t help but be stronger. Still got those prayers streaming thatta way. <3
yay for your dad!! may his sense of humor keep his and your spirits high!
as for the brownie turned fudge? what a delish “mistake”, if you can even call it that!
I know, isn’t it great? makes me happy that he is still happy. positive attitude is a big part of healing, for sure. and yes, the brownie fudge. I had no idea if it would work, but it actually came out like I envisioned it. after the third try
Your dad is a lucky guy to get these
They look amazing…they are like baked chocolate fudge that looks so dense, so rich, so amazing. And the caramel on top…swoon.
When you say not canned coconut milk, you mean if you can’t crack open a fresh coconut to use almond or soy milk instead of canned coconut milk?
ha! no… I suppose I could re-word that better… I meant use the carton milk, not canned. Canned would probably work also, but it’s usually a different consistency and I used the carton milk… that’s all. I’m not cracking coconuts over here…
What a lucky girl you are to have such a great dad with such beautiful memories! He’s a pretty darn lucky man to have you too! Keep that chin up my friend.
Oh and this brownie fudge…sounds perfect!
all the nurses love him
I am very lucky to have him – and LOVE that he is positive through this. the nurse said “most people are cursing that thing”
The thing is, you HAVE to find the laughter in these situations. Life is not easy and getting caught up in the bad or being angry by it really doesn’t help. When I had my surgeries for my tumor, I was so overwhelmed, but being surrounded by laughter with Tony and the boys made all the difference in the world. I remember laughing so hard at stupid little things, mind you laughing was horribly painful, but how can you be mad when you can’t help but laugh. Trust me, your dad will appreciate the smiles and laughter so much more. Besides, you have an amazing smile! It would improve anybody’s day! I’m also glad you have a great nurse! I have had some stinkers and that’s a real downer. I’m thinking about all of you my friend!
I know, laughter does so help!! Good you had that while you were recovering too – although owie, I know from my appendix bursting that painful laughing thing… but I’d still rather laugh, you know?
Dad has been lucky to have some REALLY great nurses, I appreciate them too… they are so good to me as well. all the little details make this easier, you know? thank you as always for your support! XO
My pinning button isn’t working?!?!? Anyone else complain about this yet? I wanted to pin these!
I actually have had two people say something this morning – I just tried it with this post and it worked?
YO. Shut the front door. You are killin me ova he-ya.
Must make this stat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you do – let me know if you like them? they’re different
crap…I hit submit before I wanted to…you see girl!!!!!!!!! It’s working…all of your love and LIGHT!!! I’m so happy for you…
THANK YOU!! your messages lately mean more than you know. <3
yesterday his nurse took him for a walk, and she said she had to tell him to Slow Down!!
he's doing GOOD these days.
YUM. That is all.
I couldn’t wait, I made these last night and they are SO GOOD. The caramel is perfect, and I love this neww “brownie fudge”. I’m taking them to work today to share with everyone!
thanks, Janice! SO glad you like them! it’s an interesting texture, but I love it!
Holy YUM!! You had me at “salted caramel” but I fell over with “brownie fudge”. Can’t wait to try!
I hope you like it, Kristy!
Well, if I were there, you would not have that amazing fudge all to yourself! No way!
Humor goes such a long way to healing and comforting … for both your dad and you! That is funny on the basketball! Don’t you love those indelible memories?
xoxo,
Shirley
I wish I could share this with you more than virtually, Shirley!
yes, those fun memories are a treasure – I can think back on things and soon I am laughing, smiling!
XXO K
Gah, this looks good! Thanks for sharing the lovely story about your dad. I’m hoping he is healing well and quickly!
thank you, Alta. he has more and more good days in a row – things are progressing in the right direction!
Humor is the best medicine! along with love and good brownie fudge
and Dads are the greatest!
HUGS
the twins
thanks you guys <3
I agree, humor goes a long way in healing. I am SO happy my dad is able to remain positive.
I hope your dad gets to enjoy this soon because it looks incredible. The combo of chocolate, salt and caramel can not be beat!
I know, besides chocolate + peanut butter, this is my favorite!
glad you’re able to find some time to cook and create in the kitchen! I know that’s enjoyable for you, and a good distraction from everything. plus you get to treat yourself to some tasty things. thinking about your everyday!
treating the nurses to some tasty things…
it IS good (therapeutic) to be in my kitchen. sometimes I get home from the hospital late, and I’m in there at midnight. cooking.
These brownie fudge squares look wonderful. I think your dad will enjoy them immensely! Hopefully that will happen very soon
thank you, Pat… I hope so too
I love how the nurses joke with the patients in the hospital. I always thought that it would be taboo or something, but it’s an integral part to keeping up the spirits up in that place! It’s a good sign your dad is laughing along and joking too. The nurses at my hospital always call the IV pole my dance partner, haha. In any event, when you bring your dad the brownies, might I suggest bringing a few extra for the nurses?
Lots of love your way xo
YES Susan!! I won’t be giving any of these to Dad for a while (he has trach and feeding tube…) but I DO bring things to nurses regularly! They are all so great and helpful to me too, so I’ve been showing appreciation as often as I can… especially in the ICU areas, they have tough jobs and they do them well! I think joking around (when appropriate, obviously) keeps the nurses mood light, as well… which is just as important.
yesterday one of the nurses was joking that when they went on their walk, she had to tell Dad to slow down!
thanks, Susan – good to hear from you, and I hope you are doing well! XO
wife made these today, WOW is all I can say! didn’t even mean to rhyme, this brownie is now the favorite of mine!!
thanx
ha, I love this, Peter! and thanks for letting me know you tried and like them – it’s a different recipe, that’s for sure. cheers!
THIS IS AWESOME. thanks for such a unique recipe!
YUM!
we love this – it IS very unique, but so good!!
this is the best. I already know it tastes good! (I made your version with cream cheese, I love the brownie like quality).
nom nom nom!!!
I made this last night, very unique! I like it, unexpected “texture” and very good tasting! thanks
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